THE DIFFERENCE I OBSERVED WHEN REACHED EUROPE: یورپ آتے سب سے پہلا اور بڑا فرق کیا محسوس کیا؟:

 یورپ آتے سب سے پہلا اور بڑا فرق کیا محسوس کیا:

سب سے پہلا فرق جو میں نے یورپ آکر یہاں کے لوگوں اور پاکستانیوں میں دیکھا وہ تھا ججمنٹ۔ یعنی کسی کا لباس، بات چیت، رویہ، چال ڈھال، کھنا پینا، بلکہ کسی بھی رویہ پر کوئی آپکو ٹوکتا یا اپنی رائے دیتا یا حسد کرتا یا ہنستا یا بات تک کرتا ہوا نہیں دکھائی دیتا۔ اور ایسا ہے بھی ۔ دکانوں، مارکیٹوں، ہسپتالوں، آفسوں، پارکوں یا کہیں پر بھی آپکو ہیجان میں ، جلدی میں ، دوسروں کا راستہ کاٹ کر آگے نکلنے والے نہیں ملیں گے۔ یہ لوگ اپنے اچھے ایماندارانہ نظام، خیال رکھنے والی حکومتوں ، زندگی کے معاملات میں سائینس کی وجہ سے آسانیوں، بیروزگاری نہ ہونا بلکہ اپنی پسند کے شعبے میں کام کرنے، خوشحال ہونے کی وجہ سے ہر وقت خوشی اور سرشاری کی کیفیت میں رہتے ہیں۔ اسی لئے نفسیاتی طور پر اتنےنیوراٹک نہیں جیسے پاکستان  جیسے ممالک میں ہوتے ہیں

THE DIFFERENCE I OBSERVED WHEN REACHED EUROPE: 

One of the main and foremost differences I have observed between here in Europe and Pakistan is useless individual judgment by other people. In Pakistan it's everywhere. Passing of comments about how someone is looking, what is he wearing, how is he/she talking, what he eats and even they laugh at people about who they do not know. It's just an imagination of them, the way or the picture about them in their mind about other people. For them it's all about the other people . There is no concept of self contemplation or self-check or looking one's own self critically. It is obvious that everyone wants to look good .It is a natural urge in humans that is fine but judging others, laughing on them, criticizing them is normal in third world countries like Pakistan. Therefore, it's always about blaming others for all the ills of their own society, avoiding taking responsibility. Even the State Government or Authorities blame other countries for bad economical conditions, social problems in their country. For religious scholars, so called scientists and respected personalities by the majority of illiterate or unconscious people. They blame West and Europe for earthquakes, floods and famines etc. and people believe them.

While in Europe, what I observed is that no one comment on other people or judge anyone by its look, clothes, style of walking, talking or even their opinions. They take the responsibility for themselves, their society, country and do the best they can for the prosperity and serve the society. They respect others opinion. They do not hate others due to their race, color or religion which is normal in Pakistan. They let other go first. They keep good expectations for others. while in our country, its always race of me first. People in Pakistan are not genuinely happy inside. It's all due to bad economic conditions, poverty, hatred for each other, not having a prosperous life like people have here. That's why millions migrate to Europe and after reaching here, these unaware and unconscious Desis still hate them due to their culture, their religion. People living here are happy. They live life not in a neurotic condition like in Pakistan.