I CAN RELATE & UNDERSTAND THE ''YOUTHIA" OR ''MAD FOR IMRAN KHAN'' MINDSET (English & Urdu)

پی ٹی آئی والوں کی سوچ کو سمجھ سکتا ہوں (In Urdu after this in English)

This word resembles another word that means foolish, stupid or more like brainwashed. And it was created for the young generation of Pakistanis who were educated wrong history, propaganda, conspiracy theories coined by establishment of Pakistanis and propagated through all the textbooks in Schools, Colleges, Media houses, Press and so called scholars; some on their payroll, some insane. Some of them do it due to their economical interests and rest still unconscious of the facts. Therefore, the brainwashed generation is like a flock of goats following a leader chosen by the establishment for their long term goals of their own economic interests, for their businesses, wealth and power. The real word is   'chootiya' from which this youthia came out. I do not know .Is it ok to write here or pass it through self-censorship? but as I am in that mood of saying things somehow bluntly so let it be. After university finished at the age of about 23,24, I got a job in a factory. I used to go to work regularly. On return, when I check that the family is watching dramas on star plus. These dramas were the one which I hated due to their commercial nature. I was fond of serious, classical, art type of dramas I watch on PTV, the state channel. What I love most were based on literature written by famous foreign or local writers, some based on societal values and behaviors. So when I see the opposite type of dramas and long long series who are all just show off with series of unwanted beats one after one, having no content, just elongation the same type of stories with silly or cheap type of dialogues, it looked very unreal. so I hated those series. Therefore, what I try to tried to not let them watch these. Sometimes I cut the cable, Sometimes do something with the TV, so that it can't show such channels. I use every tactic to keep them away from watching those dramas. After some months Indian channels were banned by the government due to pressure from dogmatic, clerical zealot religious leaders and their followers. It was a bad decision. 

Anyway until these channels were banned. I tried many things to stop family members and all others who wanted to watch those serials. After some years I understood that 'you can't change anyone's mind just by banning them from the things they are interested in or are taken by a way which they accept and it's everyone's choice like mine . Also it's not only a choice but a right until it is changed by the keeper him or herself and no one should be forced to hold the same opinion'. 

Though this awareness may be given by books I read on spirituality, philosophy, literature and sociology and more than that open to new ideas of thinking in different ways than traditional or prevalent in the society. So from last many years the behavior of these ch**tias, I mean 'youthias' is the same that they want to impose their thinking on everyone. They do the same which the establishment of Pakistan has been doing for the last 70 years to force people to think in a way they want. They force writers, journalists, media houses and individuals using tactics of murdering, abductions, forcing to, using carrot and stick policies, bribing and acting as 'Big brother is watching' as defined by George Orwell in his book 1984. So this generation of youthias is using bad immoral comments, does not respect women, and expresses their opinion in a filthy and shitty way at its worst. Not only by words but by condemnable actions. So their behavior reminds me of my behavior towards my family many many years ago to not letting them watch star plus serials and imposing my ideas over them to watch what I want for them because I feel good and I know better what to watch and what not. That was my mindset. it's like. People who are digging for the truth and have got the reality behind fabricated history taught in textbooks and propagated by the powerful establishment and all the king's men and women are criticized, blamed and maligned all the time on social media. and they want people to think like they are thinking or understood about history and affairs.  

2004، 2005 میں یونیورسٹی کے بعد میں کسی فیکٹری میں جاب کرتا تھا۔ ان دنوں کیبل کا رواج تھا اور اسٹار پلس پر گھروں پہ لمبے سیریلس چلتے تھے۔ مجھے ان سے سخت نفرت ہوتی تھی۔ میں آرٹ فلمیں، ادبی قسم کے ڈرامے دیکھنے کا عادی تھا جو پی ٹی وی پر چلتے تھے سو مجھے بناوٹی اور کمرشل قسم کے ڈراموں سے سخت چڑ ہوتی تھی۔ میں کہتا تھا انڈین فلمیں دیکھو پر ڈرامے نہیں اور خصوصن یہ بناوٹی سیریز تو ہرگز نہیں۔ اور میں یہ سمجھنے سے قاصر تھا کہ گھر میں یہ ڈرامے سب کیوں دیکھتے تھے۔ مجھے ان کے ذھنوں کا اندازہ نہیں ہوتا تھا سو بہت بار میں کیبل کی تارہی کاٹ دیا کرتا تھا۔ بہت دفعہ ٹی وی خراب کردیتا تھا۔ کبھی کیبل بند ہوجائے تو مجھے خوشی ہوتی تھی۔ میں کیونکہ تھوڑا لاڈلہ تھا اور لڑکا تھا۔ میری بہن ایسا کرتی تو بچاری کی خیر نہ تھی۔ سو بس میں کسی بھی طرح چاہتا تھا کہ گھر میں یہ ڈرامے کوئی نہ دیکھے کیونکہ میں نہیں دیکھنا چاہتا یا میرےمعیار پر پورے نہیں اترتے۔ بہت سالوں بعد کتابیں پڑھنے یا تجربوں سے یا شعور کی ترقی سے پتہ چلا اور احساس ہوا کہ اپنی سوچ اپنا معیارتھوپنے سے فائدہ نہیں بلکہ نقصان ہی ہوتا ہے اور یہ تاریخ سے بھی واضح ہے۔ جب مجھے یہ یوتھئے، یہ عمرانی سوچ والے یہ پی ٹی آئی والے کہیں کچھ بولتے ،لکھتے ، بات کرتے دکھائی دیتے ہیں تو مجھے ان پر بڑاترس آتا ہے اور اپنا وہی زمانہ یاد آتا ہےکہ میں بھی ایسا ہی ذدی ہواکرتا تھا جو اپنی سوچ سب پر مسلط کرنا چاہتا ہے۔ اور بس خود کو ہی صحیح سمجھتا ہے۔ کسی کی رائے اسے برداشت ہی نہیں ہوتی وغیرہ وغیرہ۔ سو کیا کریں کہ یہ کچھ دہائیوں کی تعلیم اور پھیلائی گئی سوچ ہے جو اس نسل میں سرائیت کر گئی ہے اور اب اچھی اور صحیح تعلیم و تربیت اور شعورسے ہی کچھ تبدیلی آسکتی ہے۔ پر کیا کریں کہ خود "تبدیلی" فلسفے کی ان یوتھیائی سوچ نے مٹی پلید کرکے رکھ دی

THE DIFFERENCE I OBSERVED WHEN REACHED EUROPE: یورپ آتے سب سے پہلا اور بڑا فرق کیا محسوس کیا؟:

 یورپ آتے سب سے پہلا اور بڑا فرق کیا محسوس کیا:

سب سے پہلا فرق جو میں نے یورپ آکر یہاں کے لوگوں اور پاکستانیوں میں دیکھا وہ تھا ججمنٹ۔ یعنی کسی کا لباس، بات چیت، رویہ، چال ڈھال، کھنا پینا، بلکہ کسی بھی رویہ پر کوئی آپکو ٹوکتا یا اپنی رائے دیتا یا حسد کرتا یا ہنستا یا بات تک کرتا ہوا نہیں دکھائی دیتا۔ اور ایسا ہے بھی ۔ دکانوں، مارکیٹوں، ہسپتالوں، آفسوں، پارکوں یا کہیں پر بھی آپکو ہیجان میں ، جلدی میں ، دوسروں کا راستہ کاٹ کر آگے نکلنے والے نہیں ملیں گے۔ یہ لوگ اپنے اچھے ایماندارانہ نظام، خیال رکھنے والی حکومتوں ، زندگی کے معاملات میں سائینس کی وجہ سے آسانیوں، بیروزگاری نہ ہونا بلکہ اپنی پسند کے شعبے میں کام کرنے، خوشحال ہونے کی وجہ سے ہر وقت خوشی اور سرشاری کی کیفیت میں رہتے ہیں۔ اسی لئے نفسیاتی طور پر اتنےنیوراٹک نہیں جیسے پاکستان  جیسے ممالک میں ہوتے ہیں

THE DIFFERENCE I OBSERVED WHEN REACHED EUROPE: 

One of the main and foremost differences I have observed between here in Europe and Pakistan is useless individual judgment by other people. In Pakistan it's everywhere. Passing of comments about how someone is looking, what is he wearing, how is he/she talking, what he eats and even they laugh at people about who they do not know. It's just an imagination of them, the way or the picture about them in their mind about other people. For them it's all about the other people . There is no concept of self contemplation or self-check or looking one's own self critically. It is obvious that everyone wants to look good .It is a natural urge in humans that is fine but judging others, laughing on them, criticizing them is normal in third world countries like Pakistan. Therefore, it's always about blaming others for all the ills of their own society, avoiding taking responsibility. Even the State Government or Authorities blame other countries for bad economical conditions, social problems in their country. For religious scholars, so called scientists and respected personalities by the majority of illiterate or unconscious people. They blame West and Europe for earthquakes, floods and famines etc. and people believe them.

While in Europe, what I observed is that no one comment on other people or judge anyone by its look, clothes, style of walking, talking or even their opinions. They take the responsibility for themselves, their society, country and do the best they can for the prosperity and serve the society. They respect others opinion. They do not hate others due to their race, color or religion which is normal in Pakistan. They let other go first. They keep good expectations for others. while in our country, its always race of me first. People in Pakistan are not genuinely happy inside. It's all due to bad economic conditions, poverty, hatred for each other, not having a prosperous life like people have here. That's why millions migrate to Europe and after reaching here, these unaware and unconscious Desis still hate them due to their culture, their religion. People living here are happy. They live life not in a neurotic condition like in Pakistan.